The Other Side of Forgiveness

Forgiveness is good for the soul, but what if you are the one needing forgiveness?  It is also good to realize when you are the one who needs forgiveness. An apology can be a beautiful thing.

Belinda's Dream

When we examine our actions and realize that we stand in need of forgiveness, we could take a page from the book of a second grader.  He had been mean to a little girl on the bus.  This was not his normal way of acting, but he had gotten drawn into action by the people he was with.  With the help of a good mother, he wrote a note and brought flowers to the girl the next day, apologizing for his behavior.

What a lovely thing to do.  What a great mother to teach that although our actions have hurt, we can try to repair the damage.  Just like practicing forgiveness, we can also practice apology – sincere and sometimes beautiful apology.

Where are you this Lent?

As you examine yourself and your need for forgiveness, is there an apology in order?  Imagine a society where those who realized they had hurt another, apologized sincerely and beautifully, and the recipient was able to accept and forgive.  We are sometimes on one side or the other of this forgiveness issue.  And, at times we are in the place of the guide, helping another learn the value of apology or forgiveness.

About Sonja Roberts Dalglish

I love people, math, physics, and theology. I love mysteries which may explain the list above. I am a polio survivor, having had the disease in August 1954. The vaccine was declared safe in April 1955. I am very pro vaccines. They have increased the health and well being of the world. Presently, I am living just west of Corpus Christi, in Kingsville. For naturalists, this seems to be where the coastal plane and the Wild Horse Dessert meet. It is flat which gives us beautiful sunsets. One of our concerns is climate change. We are already hot and dry and getting hotter and dryer. The cattlemen and women are having to graze fewer livestock these days.
This entry was posted in Forgiveness, Hope, Wholeness. Bookmark the permalink.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s